Friday, October 10, 2008

sarah's 4th birthday...9.29


i asked sarah where she wanted to eat to celebrate her birthday a few weeks before her birthday. she told me she wanted to eat at chili's. no big surprise, the kid LOVES chili's for some reason...although she hardly eats anything while we are there. well, since her birthday was the day chili's donated all profits to st. jude, we decided we should brave the crowds at lunch time rather than dinner time. so, mimi, poppy, nana, pop pop, and daddy joined mommy, sarah, and drew for a big lunch celebration! as you can see, sarah thoroughly enjoyed herself and being the center of attention!!! also, sweet girl thought that all the balloons outside and inside the restaurant were for her birthday, not for the st. jude event. of course we didn't tell her the truth!!!




i LOVE how sarah is explaining something HIGHLY important to poppy in this pic...


Thursday, October 9, 2008

37 weeks...current events...

well, i had another OB appointment this morning. things are supposedly moving right along. its funny, i WANT to have my baby at 40 weeks-full term-so he will be as big and healthy as possible, but its still disappointing when you hear that you aren't going into labor in the next 2 minutes :) i am dilating and effacing a bit, but nothing that sent us rushing right over to the hospital.

i just realized as i was typing this, that to me, and all other women of childbearing age, these words and conversations are so commonplace...but, to some random person on the internet, this might all be a little too much information :) so, if you aren't into routine OB discussions, you may want to skip these little weekly updates until jacob arrives!!!

bottom line from the appointment, mommy is still healthy and baby is still healthy and it appears that baby will come when he is ready...hopefully no induction necessary! dr. williams said if she HAD to guess she'd say it would be another 2 weeks. again, i'd only be 39 weeks at that point, so REALLY that's what we want...but i think it would definitely be more comfortable on the OTHER side of delivery at this point. i go back next thursday, so until then...

the afterparty...9.27




after sarah's birthday party, everyone headed home in time for a late lunch and naps. but, we had the inflatable slide/bounce house and snowcone machine until later that night...so, tim invited the yorks and higginbothams to come BACK over after naptime for an easy dinner and more playtime! after i convinced the other 2 moms that YES, i really did want them to come back over, and NO just because i am 35 weeks pregnant i am not lying...i just told them not to expect the house to look any better than it did the second everyone had left the party!!!

the kids played outside for a few more hours getting extremely dirty again...and then it was time for them to settle down a bit :) we lined all 6 of them up on the couch (with 2 plates of skittles, mind you) and they watched a movie! they were so still, it was hilarious! they had ALL had a really big day of too much sugar and too much activity! all in all, sarah's big party day was wonderful! of course, the next morning we were all a bit tired from all of the celebrating, but it was so worth it! and as i've said, with my 3rd on the way any time now, i wanted to give sarah a big blowout while i still had the ability to do so!!!

Sunday, October 5, 2008

sarah's 4th birthday party...the narrative...9.27


i realized after i posted a bunch of pics of sarah's 4th birthday party on facebook that her party wasn't one of those easy, self-explanatory parties like a princess party, another character party, or an activity party like park, art party, etc...of course it wasn't...that would be too simple...
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so, back in the summer, i started asking sarah what kind of birthday party she wanted. i was never expecting ANY answer other than "princess party". the child constantly has on some form of royal bling. boy, was i WRONG...she immediately asked for a "letters" party. great, but what's that?!?
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she explained to me that she wanted all her friends to come to her birthday and learn their letters. this summer was the summer of letter discovery at our house. sarah learned to write her name, all her letters, tell us the first letter of most words (except those pesky ones that sound different than their starting letter), give us a list of rhyming words for whatever we were saying, and tell us the sounds that every letter of the alphabet makes. making for some drawn out conversations as we had to have a "letter lesson" on almost every word or sound. so, since she was enamoured with letters, she thought all her friends should be too! and since most of her friends were recently 4, they thought letters were pretty cool too!
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so, i kinda took a little liberty with her idea to make the actual "theme". i mostly did activities, foods, and favors that started with the letter "S". for activities, we had a big inflatables slide, snowcones, star shaped sugar cookies to decorate with icing and sprinkles, bracelets with letters for kids to spell their name in beads, swings, a sand table, see-saw, and our regular ole swingset slide. for food, we had the above mentioned snowcones and sugar cookies, along with letter shaped sandwiches, tortilla spirals, chips and salsa, sausage balls, and then some other foods too-like a veggie tray because can you honestly host a party without a veggie tray? (can you tell from the menu that i'm pregnant?) we also had a bunch of "S" candies--starbursts, skittles, sour patch kids, smarties, sour skittles, sweetarts, etc. in big buckets--you know, just in case the kids hadn't had enough sugar yet :) for the favor bags, we had ABC flashcards, slinkies, stickers, and all the "S" candies.
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our cake was covered in letters and made by our favorite cake maker, lucy hazel. she made our wedding cake 7 years ago, and has made every one of our kids' birthday cakes since then. they are always so cute and taste really good too! she is in collierville (convenient!) and is really reasonably priced! our only problem is that drew's birthday (in february) and mardi gras usually coincide, so we sometimes have to slide drew's party around so we can get a "lucy cake"!!! she is from new orleans and usually goes down there for a week or so to celebrate with her family.
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oh, and sarah's party REALLY turned into a big event for a couple of reasons. #1: my third child (tim) really wanted to rent the inflatable slide and snowcone machine...i was content with all the other activities. but, the kids LOVED the snowcone machine more than anything. one of sarah's friends called mr. tim "mr. red-hand-man" since he was dyed from making cones! so funny! most of the kids had multiple snowcones and the writing was all over their faces and clothes :)#2: i invited LOTS of people to come to sarah's party. for the past few years, we have had LOTS of rsvp's of NO because of it being SEC football season, pee wee league football and soccer, etc. well, this year EVERY SINGLE child was able to come! it was tons of fun...but a little overwhelming as well! and this was really the first year that sarah helped with the guest list, and between preschool and church, she had A LOT of requests!
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thankfully, baby jacob did not make his appearance prior to the big party weekend! at my ob check up 2 days before the party, i told the doctors that they better give me a good report that NOTHING was happening yet! and then, the week before the party, i had TWO friends tell me that they had gone into labor following their older children's birthday parties! NOT encouraging!
i think this LOOOOOOONG explanation should help with the pics i post over the next few days...i AM trying to get caught up on pictures so we can immediately start posting baby pics when jacob arrives!

before the big party...9.27








Friday, October 3, 2008

griffin's 4th birthday party...9.25

as i mentioned a few days ago, we got all dressed up as superheroes and headed to chuck e. cheese for griffin's big birthday party! it was so cute to watch all the little superheroes run around playing! everyone had a big time! and i was really impressed that there were no meltdowns being that it was a thursday evening after 3 days in a row of preschool for most of the kids there! i guess pumping kids full of sugar masks a myriad of problems!!!sarah LOVES this "game"--you pick up a phone and "talk" to chuck. totally NOT worth a token, imo...
like daddy, like son...playing basketball...
sarah also LOVES air hockey...everyone commented on how long she played and how she actually plays pretty well...here she is whooping on kiki (griff's grandmother)...
sarah and ava posing for the "sketch machine"...
drew, not wanting his picture taken...imagine that?!?
sarah enjoying her pizza...
singing happy birthday to griffin...
even superwoman needs her blankie sometimes...
the birthday boy!
just a cute pic of sar...
two superheroes running off to save the day...
i thought ava, drew, and tucker looked so cute staring at the mechanical chuck e. cheese character! mesmerized!!!



Thursday, October 2, 2008

36 weeks...current events...

well, i went to the OB today for my weekly appointment and i thought i was getting far enough along to actually report what was happening now...

it started out like deja vu all over again...i was on the table and asked if she could tell if baby was head down or breech. (remember how drew was breech until the VERY LAST MINUTE? i was already prepped for surgery with an IV and everything...the ultrasound tech comes in to check ONE MORE TIME if he had flipped to head down, plops the wand on my belly and says oh-so-casually that drew is head down!?! dr. austin sends me home and i go into labor with drew on my own 3 days later?) so, she palpates my tummy for a while and says, "oh, i'm pretty sure he's breech. let's schedule a c-section for 39 weeks. how is oct 24th? i'm at baptist (hospital) that day. oh, do you want your tubes tied while i'm in there doing the section?" OH MY GOODNESS! information overload! all of those questions were worse than on your initial OB visit when they ask you if you are planning to breastfeed or have a male child circumcised and you are still waiting for the other nurse to confirm your pregnancy test!!! so, after discussing all of this for a few minutes, she does say that she wants me to have another ultrasound today to check his position. (this kid has had TONS of ultrasounds!)

so, we make the walk to the ultrasound room...completely SAD that baby jacob is probably breech! the ultrasonographer knows us now, and knows our history, and is laughing that we are back with baby #3 being breech too! anyway, long story even longer, she plops the wand on my belly and immediately says, "he's head down!" WE WERE ECSTATIC!!! now, we've still got 4 more weeks, and since he isn't engaged yet, he could still move, but she spent a long time checking him out...and i have a "low-normal" amount of amniotic fluid (less likely to allow him to flip), and he is already estimated at 7lbs 4oz. (85%tile), so we are hoping he will stay put!

after 5 weeks of ultrasounds with drew showing that he was STILL breech, i was so thankful that today's ultrasound didn't start us down that same path!!! other than the whole breech debacle, everything else was completely normal. we just keep going back weekly from here on out...i'll keep you guys in the know!!!

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

obstetrics, explained...

this morning while i was fixing sarah's hair for picture day at preschool, she began this story...

"so, mom (how most stories start around here)...when you go to the hospital, i'm going to stay with mimi at her house. you are going to go to the hospital and get in a bed. then, they are going to put a blanket on top of you, and THEN they are going to hand you a baby! its going to be baby jacob! then i am going to come sit on your bed with you and hold baby jacob very nice and give him a bottle! won't that be fun (how most stories end around here)?"

i'm so glad sarah has it all figured out at the ripe ole age of FOUR. if only it were that simple, kid...

superheroes...9.25





griffin had a superheroes party at chuck e. cheese for his 4th birthday. i headed out one evening with just sarah to go to target to get just drew a superheroes costume...i figured sarah could just wear one of her 15 princess dresses and that would be fine. as you've seen before, drew doesn't have a great selection of boy dress-up clothes anyway. so, even though this wasn't to be his halloween costume as well, i didn't feel too bad (plus it was $10!)...

well, i should have known better than to think miss priss wasn't going to want a new costume. of course she was DYING to have a supergirl outfit of her own. so, i ended up with two superhero costumes and two super happy kids! i have to admit, the supergirl costume was a nice change from princess dresses, tiaras, magic wands, and high heels...

once we got the kids dressed for the party, we had a mini photo shoot...i'll post pics from griff's actual party soon...